Sometimes folks take a statement as judging. Not here to judge. Remember don’t judge a book by its cover.
Some people are fighting a battle inside that people can’t see, don’t judge people off appearance.
We are not perfect enough ourselves to make “any kind “of judgement about another person nor the life they currently live or what their life has been in the past. We should realize the choices we make or have made come from the many things we have experienced and seen in life. Love and accept people based on who they are at this point and time. Otherwise you may pass up a great friendship or possibly a partner for life. What is in the past is past, work everyday to be the person you want to be and you won’t have time to worry about others. ~ Yvonne Horne
A better you will attract a better next 
We meet people for a reason 
Some people who flood others with their distasteful criticism 
Never be reckless with someone else’s heart