Putting yourself first can be a good thing if someone continues to abuse, take advantage, letting go makes a person stronger!
I’ve gotten to the point in my life that I don’t need to protect myself from my own negativity. Find the happy in your ness! ~ Erica White
Did you know if you submerge yourself completely hair and all in the water, it washes off the negative energy. Try it, it works and what have you got to lose but negative energy. ~ Mary Gerdes
There’s always some reason to be positive 
Allowing thoughts that steal your joy 
Stop thinking too much 
As you get older you will understand more about your life