You learn when you get older. My circle is very small these days. ~ Irene Lima
Love yourself first and foremost, only then will you be able to draw from the well for others. It will feel right when you do that. ~ Grace Haslam
Close your circle up to the real people in your life. Shut the users and negatives out. They actually enjoy living that way. You don’t have to. Don’t let them in, let them go! Life is beautiful without constant negativity. ~ Linda Smith
Be Patient! Good things take time 
Sometimes a good heart doesn’t see the bad 
Don’t dwell on things on the past 
If you can’t do anything about something