You cannot change someone who doesn’t want to change. I wanted to become a better person after conquering my anxiety & depression, now I only want the same happiness for everyone else also! ~ Anji Stevens
Once you decide you don’t want to be a way, or you want to be a way, you change it.
We all have unique spiritual gifts. Obedience is one for some people, but the flip side of that is learning to have compassion for those who weren’t blessed with that particular gift. Everyone is different, but God gives us our weaknesses so that they may become our strengths and generally when we work hard to attain that, we also have compassion because we remember how hard it was. ~ Katie Ayers
I never want to change anyone. I want them to want to and change themselves for the better.
One of the best ways to help someone change is to love them exactly as they are right now. Love is not just a sweet “Hallmark” word, it is real and has incredible power. Just love and be there. Human beings can be hard work sometimes, but they are worth it. ~ Mary Monaghan
If you can’t do anything about something 
No relationship is all sunshine 
Keep your mind occupied with something 
Pay attention to whom your energy increases & decreases around