No explanation is actually needed if there is no breach of UNDERSTANDING.
Now when I try to speak the truth from my perspective I am not believed. Now I’m told to just stop being defensive. So my choice is either ignore what is said to me that I find false or blindly agree like a puppet. ~ Kaylene Myers
Little chance you have in trying to change others 
Some people are always negative in life 
Live for what tomorrow can bring 
Never waste your time trying to explain to people