Experience is the best teacher & lessons.
It doesn’t make you strong to shut yourself off numb yourself. That’s a coping mechanism but it’s the sign of weakness, not strength. Strength comes in how you handle the pain.
Experience is the best teacher & the darkest time is the precious lesson. We can’t avoid or run away, just be tough, smart & optimistic.
Spend it with friends who make you feel loved 
Never drop down to someone who treats you badly 
Don’t judge me by my successes 
Everybody won’t be willing to go where you want to go